How to be at peace and be happy within yourself

Calm comes from building your own landscape

That inner peace which so many seek and which so few achieve really is easier than one may imagine. It comes from following the steps outlined below, which in effect simplify the landscape of one’s life. It is this landscape which gives an individual personal strength to endure any given circumstances, and once mastered, enriches the very being. The landscape of a life stems from how one perceives not only self, but those around them, and all aspects of life and circumstance, fitting each neatly into the landscape so as not to confuse the overall picture.


Step 1

Eliminate personal doubts

Doubts are hurdles which stem from disappointment or expectation. To eliminate doubt doesn’t come easy to a busy mind. The way to do this is to remember that a doubt hasn’t actually happened yet and is not tangible. Once viewed in this way, and seen as outside the scope of what is, it becomes easier to dismiss. Taking doubt out of the equation frees up space in the landscape for other things.

Step 2

Eliminating people.

It may seem very unkind to think of eliminating people, though often their negativity rubs off on others, and brings dark clouds onto the horizon of an otherwise rewarding landscape. Decide which are real friends and who are negative influences. Of course friends will need help from time to time, and no one would suggest otherwise. However, those people who constantly use others are the ones who fill the landscape with unecessary clutter. Eliminate them until they have more to offer in the way of friendship. Give and take in relationships is vital to peace of mind.

Step 3

Eliminating responsibilities.

All of the people around you have responsibilities, no matter what their age. Even a small ch ild can be encouraged to clean their bedroom. People who take on other people’s responsibilities tend to fill their landscape with unecessary clutter. Let those around you be responsible for themselves as far as they are able to be. This leaves more space to be able to help those unable to help themselves.

Step 4

Eliminating worries.

A worry faced head on becomes a worry dealt with. Deal with worries as they happen and never let them build up. If they do, get your partner to help with the load. Worries fester and are unhealthy if you let them become so. The best way is to create a pattern which allows you to be able to deal with things as they happen, in calm and organized manner. Once you start to do this, even the hardest of tasks begin to seem small and easy to manage. Just as a child learns to take one step at a time, use your worries as lessons in management and tools to become better at dealing with life’s problems.

Step 5

Filling the empty landscape

Once you have eliminated the things mentioned in previous steps, start to introduce things which matter to you, and which you enjoy. Creative things are great attributes to the landscape of a peaceful life, and if you make time for them, you actually start to like who you are and to look forward to each day as it happens.

Step 6

Adding dimension to the landscape.

A picture without depth is almost like a cartoon. It is incomplete. Start to love who you are, and allow yourself the pleasures of life. Often people forget that self love completes the picture and makes the soul complete. It therefore follows that once you find inner peace and love yourself, others love you more, as a complete person. It is within that allowance for creativity, balance, and inner strength that you find yourself and in turn, find peace.

Things Needed
• Honesty
• Integrity
• The ability to make wise choices.

Tips & Warnings
• Having inner peace takes work, but can be achieved with patience.


    St. George  29.01.2016 15:18

    Beautiful article, thanks for sharing

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