How to be happier

Maintaining your attitude and joy through various circumstances
How to be happier

Have you ever noticed how two people can face very similar circumstances but react in very different ways? Though it’s a process to understand it, maintaining long-term happiness in life depends on factors outside the daily emotional ups and downs of life. The following are a few thoughts to consider.


Step 1

Understand that true happiness in life comes down to a decision

In life, you’re going to encounter both good and bad circumstances at any given time. If you let your mood and attitude be based around your immediate situation, your life will feel like a roller coaster of emotion. Choosing to be happy despite bad circumstances isn’t always easy, but it will help you bounce back faster and move forward.

Step 2

Count your blessings and focus on the good in your life

When a situation seems overwhelming, it can be easy to forget all the good you have in your life. Counting your blessings helps keep a situation in perspective and can relieve some of the stress behind it.

Step 3

Feed your brain with positive information and limit negative information

On a daily basis, most of us are bombarded with negative information without realizing it. For example, most news reports focus on bad events even though a lot of good goes on in the world as well. Taken to extremes, watching and hearing a lot of negative information can give a person a depressing outlook on life in general.

In contrast, making a concentrated effort to put positive information into your brain through inspirational books, movies, and television shows can have a boosting effect on your mood and motivation.

Step 4

Take a look at your associations

People tend to become like other people around them over time. If you surround yourself with negative and unhappy people, there’s a good chance you’ll pick up the same attitude over time. While it may be difficult to break away from some relationships, you at least need to understand how they may be affecting you and make efforts to change in other areas.

A support network of caring people in your life can help you get through difficult times and give you an objective perspective on your situation. In turn, you can help them when you’re doing well.

Step 5

Take action on the things in life you can control

When you find yourself in a situation where you feel helpless, try to find one aspect that you have some degree of control and focus on it.

If you can’t do anything about your own situation, reach out and help someone less fortunate than you with your time. Again, this can help you gain clarity and perspective on your situation and may give you an idea on how to break through it.

Things Needed
• The desire for a happier life

Tips & Warnings
• Humor is an important aspect to happiness as well. It’s important to learn how to laugh at yourself sometimes and enjoy life.
• Don’t mistake happiness with a destination. People sometimes get trapped in an, «I’ll be happy if…» cycle, believing that a material object or an event is the key to their happiness. This will only leave you frustrated.


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