How to get a girl to like you

Tips for getting the girl

Whether you’re a teenager or a grown man, figuring out how to get a girl to like you can take a lifetime to figure out. Fortunately, getting the girl isn’t as complicated as it might seem. With the right tactics, you can land almost any girl (or woman) that you want. However, we hope you also have the right intentions in mind. Getting the girl isn’t about impressing your friends or adding a notch to your bedpost. If you’re truly interested in a girl and think you might have a future together (or at least some mutual fun), these tips can help you in the door.


Step 1

Figure out what she likes

There is no cut and dry formula for how to get a girl to like you. This is because no two girls are alike. If you really like a girl, you’ll need to take the time to figure out what she likes if you want to find your way into her heart. And no, this doesn’t give you license to stalk the poor girl; just be observant. It can be as simple as bringing her a cup of her favorite coffee the next time that you swing by the coffee shop. And we’re not just talking about gifts here. The most important reason to figure out what she likes is so that you have ideas for conversation once you finally get some one-on-one time with her. You don’t have to pretend to be in to everything she likes, but at least attempt to be interested.

Step 2

Have a sense of humor

Most women love a guy with a good sense of humor, which includes not taking yourself too seriously. Chubby hubbies have proven that if you can make a girl laugh, you don’t have to have washboard abs or a designer wardrobe. Part of having a sense of humor is having the confidence to just be yourself, so relax and have some fun with your crush. A little laughter goes a long way. Remember, girls might not share your love of fart jokes, so beware of resorting to dirty or inappropriate quips in an effort to make her laugh.

Step 3

Shower her with compliments

Okay, so you don’t want to look desperate (or God forbid, whipped!), but both women and men respond to partners that make them feel good about themselves. If your crush looks really pretty today, let her know it, but don’t forget to compliment her about traits besides her appearance, such as her intellect and special talents. If you’re wondering how to get a girl to like you, compliments (delivered with confidence) are key. Plus, by showing her some positive attention, she’ll get the hint that you like her. This can help you figure out whether she feels the same way before you risk rejection.

Step 4

Seal the deal

Now that you know how to get a girl to like you, if you want a girlfriend (or at least a date), you’ll have to get up the courage to actually ask her out. By now, you should have a pretty good idea of whether the girl you’re crushing on is crushing back. However, asking a girl out for the first time can still be nerve-wracking. Fortunately, the tips discussed above for how to get a girl to like you also apply to asking a girl out (having confidence, knowing what she likes, complimenting her and not taking yourself too seriously). Why not ask her to go see a band that you know she loves or a movie she’s been dying to see. Keep it casual and the risk of rejection is lower, but still make it clear that you’re asking her on a date, not a platonic outing.

Things Needed
• Confidence
• A sense of humor
• Good intentions

Tips & Warnings
• Game-play doesn’t work with most girls/women
• If a girl is more into material things (such as how you look and what kind of car you drive) than who you are on the inside, she’s not worth your time and effort
• Don’t go for generic romantic gestures; get to know what she likes and try a more personal approach


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